What is screening?

Screening or verification is simple process required by providers to help ensure safety and peace of mind upon meeting.

Why is screening mandatory?

Screening cuts down on potential violent or unsafe clients. A companion is not going to be relaxed when alone in your presence with no idea of anything about you or who you are, and it’s unfair of you to expect her to be.

Every year, there are hundreds of women in this industry who are abused, raped, kidnapped, even murdered. Due to the stigma and legalities of this work, they need to look out look out for themselves because no one else is going to. In this day and age, screening is put into place and used by 90% of providers you'll find online.

What is required for screening?

Each provider will have their own way of screening. This could be your ID with occupation proof, or references, or both. Don’t be surprised if a provider does not accept references for screening- some don’t, simply because they are putting 100% of their trust into a stranger.

References from reputable and verified providers let the companion know that you have seen others with no problems.
Occupation information with ID proves you have a job and therefore majorly minimizes the possibility of you being law enforcement.

Will my information be safe?

Many providers delete their clients personal information later on after the first meeting, for obvious reasons. They may instead save in your email or phone number so they know for future appointments that they have already seen you.

ProtonMail is a popular email account choice, which is an offshore encrypted email service provider. I would advise that you too, as a client, join ProtonMail for extra security. If your account happens to get hacked, everything in there is wiped. I once got locked out of my account and after going through all the verification steps to get back in, everything was a mess. A jumble of unrecognizable characters and no way to decipher it.

I've noticed that some newbie clients seem alarmed when we tell them we need to verify via employment because they don't have references. Let me make this clear: Your employer or colleagues are NOT contacted. We do not want to talk to them. Employment screening will usually consist of linkedin or the link to your online work profile, or an email of any content from your company email to her discreet and unassociated email address. When I say discreet email, this may be something like jimbob@gmail.com, which will come up with zilch results when you google it. No one is going to know you've emailed her.

What about my privacy as a client?

I will say this bluntly- sorry, but you're not that special for us to care about what you do in your personal life; whether you are married, where you work, whatever. It's of zero interest. All we want, is to know we are not seeing someone who is known to be dangerous or law enforcement.
Do you really think they are going to contact your work or wife? Think about it, and what they are doing for a living; they are not here for drama or to have outside spotlight on them. Why would they jeopardize their reputation, safety. and their chances of having you come back to them in the future as a repeat client?

At the end of the day, it comes down to your privacy or her safety.
You cannot have one without taking from the other. I screen hundreds of clients each year. If you see yourself as the exception who's boring job information is more important over another human-being's life, you aren't the type of client she will want to see.

Should I be wary if a provider doesn’t screen?

Yes. Screening isn’t just for the provider, this protects you too as a client.

There will be providers with bad intentions will not screen. Whether it’s themselves or a pimp behind that door waiting to rob you, screening gets in the way and may deter a potential victim. Why would they want to put you off?

Law enforcement will not screen, they want to arrest you in person. As an example, why do you think massage parlors are always involved in stings that appear on the news? Simple- they just allow anyone to walk through that door.

How do I protect myself as a client?

Do your research to make sure you are seeing a reputable provider. If you just visit the escort you see on the ad directory with stolen cat-fished photos and no screening which results in a bad experience, you only have yourself to blame. Just like companions who vet you as clients, it's also your responsibility to do your homework on them first.

Check her social media for online presence. This could be Instagram but I’d always advise you to look at her Twitter. If she’s posting photos, engaging in conversation, sharing other providers content, great!

If your desired companion is not active on social media, see if she has any reviews on privatedelights.ch. The search bar is most sensitive, even to capital letters, so make sure you ask her for the direct link to her profile.

You can also check her booking website. A professional website, as well as various advertisements across multiple escort directories require effort, money and time to create- something a scammer or Law Enforcement won’t bother to do.

My chosen companion wants me to send a deposit. Is this normal?

100%. Not everyone will require it, but many do. A small deposit is to ensure their time is not wasted. Do you know how many cancellations happen without a deposit? As an assistant for many past companions, I won’t bore you. Not only because of last minute cancellations or no shows- unfortunately there are spiteful individuals out there who waste time for fun. This is an industry in which comes with stigma and judgmental people. Some providers have to travel out to see you. Imagine getting ready and driving to a location an hour away, or out-pocketing childcare to leave the house, only to be sent to a purposely given wrong address?

What else can I do to make the process smoother?

Read her website in full before reaching out, from her bio to her FAQ’s. There’s nothing more frustrating than a client asking a list of questions when the answers are staring them in the face.

Try and give her notice if possible- companions are also human beings with their own lives. She may have family commitments, be a full-time student, or have a career of her own. Personally, I don’t know of many providers that are just sat at home around the clock, makeup and hair done and ready for appointments with nowhere else to be.

Ask her if she’d like you to bring anything, or better still, take initiative and take a look at her Wishlist. It’s always flattering and thoughtful when a client brings something small such as a bottle of wine or a box of her favorite chocolates. Please note, these things are never necessary, just in the case of if you want to go the extra mile.

Remember, the better you treat her, the better she will treat you in return!